Frequently Asked Questions
Who are you? What do you get out of this?Â
I'm Anthony, a 42-year-old lawyer living in the Lakeview neighborhood of Chicago.
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As a lifelong and "hardwired" spanko, I value the entire spanking experience on its own merits. Overt sexual activity is neither required nor expected during a spanking session with me. Giving a deserving woman a proper spanking is quite satisfying and fulfilling to me as a person, ideally on a recurring basis that allows both parties to get to know each other over time.
What's a spanking usually like?
Consent is core to what I do, and as a result a spanking session can take various forms depending on your interests and preferences. We will discuss these ahead of time to ensure we both have a positive and fulfilling experience. In addition, I generally prefer to first meet up for a coffee or drink before our first session together.
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My preferred method is a "progressive" spanking, beginning fairly lightly over your jeans, skirt, etc., and then eventually taking you up near your limit with your panties pulled down. I also enjoy maintaining a back-and-forth conversation the entire time, whether that relates to real-life discipline, "funishment," roleplay, or just banter. Â
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Old fashioned spanking over my knee with my hand is probably my absolute favorite, but I also have a collection of implements that can be employed when necessary. Other positions apart from over the knee (OTK) can also be effective from time to time.
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I'm new. Can I keep my clothes on? What if I don't like it?
Yes -- if you wish to keep your bottoms or panties on, I can accommodate that. We will also discuss a safeword for you to use in the event you need to slow down or stop, the default of which is yellow and red. Â
What type of women do you spank?
You must be an adult woman (18+) with whom I can have a good verbal rapport.
Can we meet in public first?
Yes, and I generally prefer that we do so.
Do you charge any fees?
No, never.